Jess Calarco

Jess Calarco

@jessicacalarco.com

Sociologist. Author. Professor. Roosevelt Institute Fellow. Expert on families, schools, kids, privilege, and power. Bylines in NYT, WaPo, MSNBC, Atlantic, etc. "Other countries have social safety nets. The US has women." www.jessicacalarco.com

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The mushroom hat is made from a pizza box (for the base and the structure of the dome top), tons of stuffing and batting, two yards of gauzy fabric, a yard of red velvet, two yards of fancy ribbon, a couple sheets of white felt, and lots of staples and hot glue.

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I'm going to try to do this cleanly. Today's right wing governments are networked to each other. Those networks are well-documented. You can read about them in books. Following the elections in one node of that network is good practice for understanding the U.S. node.

Dan Mauler 🎃@meelar.bsky.social

I just think Matt's wrong about this. We're at a point in our technological development where a ton of problems spill over national borders--if Flavio Bolsonaro burns down the Amazon, that will flood houses in Miami.

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I live in a rural town and, like, I don't know how to tell you this, but the girls play on the boys team and vice versa all the time because otherwise we don't have enough players for a game and it's literally always fine so stop being weirdos about kids sports and just let trans kids play.

Granted, I was standing outside of a very sketchy gas station/Arby's, but I'm a 40-something White woman on her way home from her kid's out-of-state soccer game, so the question very much took me by surprise.

The conversation went: Him: Are you from around here? Me: Why? Him: I thought maybe you could help me find something. Me: [thinking he means some local business] What are you looking for? Him: Uh, drugs? Me: [trying not to laugh that he literally said drugs] Sorry, can't help you with that.

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This is one of my favorite slow feeds. It’s totally worth starting from the beginning (although like me you might get stressed out by the end of the month from ‘there’s no ROOM!’ ocd but if so, it’s okay she always finds the room):

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I'm definitely gonna run out of space before the end of the month, but with the Justice Department's double Dan Sullivan duplicity in Alaska, I couldn't help using some extra space in my stitch-the-news daily news diary to embroider the two Spiderman meme.

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I'm definitely gonna run out of space before the end of the month, but with the Justice Department's double Dan Sullivan duplicity in Alaska, I couldn't help using some extra space in my stitch-the-news daily news diary to embroider the two Spiderman meme.

I highly recommend buying men sewing machines. My husband taught himself to use ours during the early days of the pandemic, and now he makes cool custom clothes for our kids.

Clara Jeffery@clarajeffery.bsky.social

Man the lists for “suggested gift for male friends” is so bereft, it’s all wallet or headphones or booze. I pride myself on being a good gift giver and I will not be defeated.

I'm definitely gonna run out of space before the end of the month, but with the Justice Department's double Dan Sullivan duplicity in Alaska, I couldn't help using some extra space in my stitch-the-news daily news diary to embroider the two Spiderman meme.

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The 5-year cancer survival rate is up to 70% SIDS deaths have decreased by over 50% 89% decline in tornado deaths All thanks to federal investment in science and OUR tax dollars at work!

Social media loves talking about how everything is getting worse. But what’s something that you’ve seen get _better_ in your lifetime?

In the wake of all this, I hope that at the very least, we never see another think piece lambasting adult children for cutting off ties with their parents.

Judd Legum@juddlegum.bsky.social

Ramaswamy has produced an attack ad weaponizing the rape of his opponent, Amy Acton, when she was 12 years old. It features Acton’s mother, who abandoned Acton after she was raped by her step-father, fleeing the state with her husband. Here is the corporate money helping fund that ad.

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It was another busy week, so I didn't get to post this yesterday, but Week 42 of my stitch-the-news daily news diary included: A lying "lawyer" Barbie An admonition to vote A golf club A trash can on fire A pitchfork An olive branch A 404 error A map of Ohio

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Everyone knows Trump isn’t Superman. The image works anyway. In Contexts, Tristan Bridges and James W. Messerschmidt examine how AI memes make masculine domination entertaining by inviting viewers to enjoy the fantasy of a leader above ordinary limits. ➡️ doi.org/10.1177/1536... #Trump #memes

They *claim* 2020 was stolen. (Using "believe" here gives too much credit to the possibility that these election deniers have simply been duped).

WIRED@wired.com

SCOOP: A slate of election deniers are running as GOP attorney general candidates across the country, including key swing states. If elected, they would play a key role in the 2028 presidential election.

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This would be the most any person has donated in any election cycle. And #2 is also Musk, in 2024.

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These systems also only produce a tiny sliver of what we might call elite, in this case, doctors, which most people won't have access to anyway. I'd rather have a broad pool of capable performers with a broad range of aptitudes than an elite few perpetually out of my reach.

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When I post about meritocracy, I tend to get, "But wouldn't you want the best doctor if you were dying?!" And sure, I'd want a skilled doctor. But I don't believe we can objectively measure which is best. And I worry the quest for objective tests devalues less testable skills like empathy & humility

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This is a place where an ethical theory known as “sufficientarianism” can be helpful. On this view, we don’t need to be the BEST, per se, we need to be good enough to clear some (presumably reasonably high) bar. By the same token, I don’t need the BEST doctor, I need a sufficiently good one.

Jess Calarco@jessicacalarco.com

When I post about meritocracy, I tend to get, "But wouldn't you want the best doctor if you were dying?!" And sure, I'd want a skilled doctor. But I don't believe we can objectively measure which is best. And I worry the quest for objective tests devalues less testable skills like empathy & humility

So-called meritocracies (like the neoliberal university) will always struggle to produce equity. Because privileged groups can determine the definition of merit and control the means by which such merit is achieved.

Taulby Edmondson@taulby.bsky.social

Democrats are still stuck in "workforce readiness" and the transactional job training paradigm of the neoliberal university. The Republican Party, conversely, as it's moved toward fascism and authoritarianism, has rediscovered that the things we believe about our country and its people matter.

When I post about meritocracy, I tend to get, "But wouldn't you want the best doctor if you were dying?!" And sure, I'd want a skilled doctor. But I don't believe we can objectively measure which is best. And I worry the quest for objective tests devalues less testable skills like empathy & humility

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The core of gang rape is men bonding over misogyny—and trading money and power in the process. Polymarket is a digital platform that allows any man who wants to participate access to the degradation of the victim. The violence defies space and time.

Saeed Jones@theferocity.bsky.social

I’m scared for us. And I’m scared of us. I keep thinking about survivors — people raped years ago, people raped last night or this morning — watching all of this play out. The betting, the jokes, the doxxing, the memes. There are so many ways to die in America without dying. More everyday.

I've talked to a surprising number of women who've told me, candidly, that they wanted to read Holding It Together, but they were worried it would make them "too mad."

Tim Carmody@tcarmody.bsky.social

I think most people, even self-described readers, love entertainment and don’t know how to work a text that resists them or poses hard questions

Every news story about the death of Kohen Wiley should also be clear to explain that, in the US, low-income parents can't use food stamps to pay for diapers, wipes, or other basic baby supplies.

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People are not cutting off their parents because they had unfair expectations of perfection of them. But a defensive reaction to stories like these can be a red flag that you won’t be able to hear crucial feedback from your own kids if your behavior has hurt them.

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Semafor@semafor.com

🟡 NEW: Former Sen. Joe Manchin is traveling to Maine this week to campaign with Republican Sen. Susan Collins. www.semafor.com/article/10/1...

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Also, the Palestinian restaurant (Hommies) where we had dinner last night was so yummy that my 12-year-old wanted to go back again for lunch today to celebrate after the game.