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"I don't want a wife, i want a hostage"

All these asscanoes and their dumb classical names.

But also quit with the weak thing. You are the weak.

The Venn diagram of men who whine about divorce being unfaaaiiirrr and men who refuse to hire a divorce lawyer (because they already know everything and think things will be fine if they just throw a few peanuts at their ex once in a while) is a circle.

taking “everything” generally means taking 50% while being saddled with 95% of the parenting labor in exchange for $750 a month child support And no matter how well she cares for his children, if she EVER dares to do something nice for herself like a manicure or a vacation it came from “his” money

Men making up problems that don't exist....again.

Yep. In the entirety of all civilizations since the advent of marriages and divorces, never has there been a SINGLE instance where the man won the holdings. Never ever. Not one. Aristotle... was "Fucking Dumbass" already taken?

Corollary: this dude has never been married.

What this dude is describing is what was historically the case for a lot of women. Their husband would take EVERYTHING she owned the moment they got married and could drop her like a piece of paper whenever. Leaving her with nothing. That's not what happens today to men who get divorced tho.

All the single mothers living in a shitty rental, getting no child support or a ridiculously tiny amount, and can't even get their exes to remember a kid's birthday have entered the chat.

Are these men who had *everything* taken in the divorce in the room with us now?

Answer: marry some you genuinely love and like to be around. Equal housework/child care. Learn her love language because she knows yours. Do not drop the ball after marriage. Foreplay is sex and non-negotiable. Learn about peri/menopause. Learn her hormone rhythms, she knows yours. Cook. Listen.

7 will get you 12 that he doesn't have any problem with women having no power in a marriage, and the husband's being able to leave her with no education, no work history, and no means or way to support herself.

“Women are not abused enough” - says this fucking… “Aristotle” moron

yes, they do, which is why they have to be sued, and have their wages garnished to pay it. My daughters bio dad sued for custody so he could stop paying. When he was losing, he said it was because they denied visitation (they didn't) . He showed up for 2 visitations after that then disappeared....

They hate women for child support, but states impose a pretty fixed formula for child support based on the father's income. It's state law, and it's based on how much it actually costs to feed and care for children. Too bad they're not rational enough to get that.

These are probably the same men that think it is totally acceptable to leave their old family because she became too old or frigid and not support them at all.

"I don't want to share anything in my marriage, I want to be The Big Boss Man and my wife is there to serve me! Waaaaah!" 😒

What is nauseating is that men who talk like this are generally living in luxury themselves. Well off men who aren't suffering in the slightest from child support or even alimony whine like they're living on gruel in a shack. Less wealthy men CAN'T be taken for what they do not have. FFS.

Some women leave marriages and get some things awarded, other women leave and get brutally murdered, possibly their children too. No woman just drops her husband without care and anxiety- unless u married someone with no common sense, & possibly a bit deranged!

"I told the judge, I said 'Fair's fair: she gets to keep the kids, I get to keep the house and money,' I said. 'That's fair,' I said, ’just like they did in olden times,' I said, but he wouldn't listen to reason. "I blame feminism."

Especially since men who do not have much money or property are usually only paying child support for their own children. Which is for the children it isn't for the wife like alimony. Alimony is for the wealthy and upper middle class. These men are losers. Many have cheated or much worse, btw.

Actually i'm kinda ready to bet THAT specific sketchy loser is close to zero in partner's experience.

He is wrong about a lot of this. I guess he hired the wrong lawyer and she got everything....