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NOW IN EARLY ACCESS: He's stuck in a loop; he gets in a relationship, decides he doesn't want to be in one, but when they break up, all he wants is to get back with his ex... and then he doesn't want to date her again. Why can't he break this pattern? www.patreon.com/DrNe...

From The Archives: Ask Dr. NerdLove: Feeling Used

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NEW COLUMN: His girlfriend is great… but he’s just not that into her. When they broke up, the only thing he wanted was to get back together. What’s going on? ASK DR. NERDLOVE: I Don’t Want To Be In A Relationship, But I Don’t Want To Break Up Either!

From The Archives: How Do We Bring The Romance Back To Our Relationship?

There’s a benefit to being strongly flavored, even if it doesn’t seem like it at times.

So I realize this isn't a 1-to-1 comparison, but one of the portents that Trump was going to win in 2016 was Brexit getting passed. I sincerely, legitimately feel that the wins in Serbia and Brazil are similarly portentous for the midterms.

NOW IN EARLY ACCESS: He's stuck in a loop; he gets in a relationship, decides he doesn't want to be in one, but when they break up, all he wants is to get back with his ex... and then he doesn't want to date her again. Why can't he break this pattern? www.patreon.com/DrNe...

From The Archives: When It’s Time To Break Up (and When It’s Not)

From The Archives: Am I In A Relationship Or Just A Rebound?

If you get in trouble with the law for making up a kid and faking their death, then obviously the way to get out of it is to make up a sister and fake your own death. It's just science.

Wait, this is just a @kevinhearne.bsky.social novel...

Amazon is running a sale on the first SIDEQUESTED! Twelve bucks gets you a fancy 300 page introduction to our book girl as she falls in love with the princess she rescues from a tower. www.amazon.com/SideQuested-... #GraphicNovel #YA #book #books #comics

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NEW COLUMN: He’s been struggling with his mental health and he’s had to take breaks for his own safety. He’s not ready to date yet, but how will he know when he is? ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Know When It’s Safe For Me To Date Again?

From The Archives: Dealing With Rejection

From The Archives: How Can I Stop Sabotaging My Relationships With Women?

Just passed a store offering new Affliction-branded clothes and I honestly had to stop and check what year it was.

"I'm just going to put this empty bowl that had my cereal and yogurt here on the counter, I sure hope nobody jumps up and licks it clean..." is a thing I just said around my cat.

Automobile safety. Seat belt laws, crumple zones, ABS, air bags… all of these have made driving a hell of a lot safer than it was when I was growing up.

From The Archives: Ask Dr. NerdLove: That’s A Deal-Breaker…

From The Archives: I Watch Too Many “Looksmaxxing” Videos and It’s Destroying my Self-Esteem!

Now in early access for my patrons: he's been dealing with treatment-resistant depression and he's needed to take time away from dating for his own safety and well-being. But after multiple false starts, how will he know when he's ready to date again? www.patreon.com/DrNe...

What Is A Man? A Miserable Pile Of Secrets, Charlie Brown

In Texas politics, this is kinda seismic www.expressnews.com/politics/art...

... wait, so they watched whichever of the Jurassic World movies that had laser-guided raptors and thought that was a *good* idea??

So… Street Fighter made some *choices*, huh?

From The Archives: How Can I Meet Women As A Submissive Man?

Well, we’ve hit an unexpected plot twist. @drlizpowell.bsky.social broke their wrist, so there won’t be a new episode this week. 😭 You’ll be spared the terrible Reddit advice and sugar-baby-daddy matchmaking sites for now. But don’t worry. We’ll be back soon. 😉 Thanks for sticking with us!

I realize time is a weird soup but how the hell was Tom Skerrit *93*?

Now in early access for my patrons: he's been dealing with treatment-resistant depression and he's needed to take time away from dating for his own safety and well-being. But after multiple false starts, how will he know when he's ready to date again? www.patreon.com/DrNe...

From The Archives: Post Mortem: Boulevard of Bad Decisions

How very Bioshock Infinite of him.

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NEW COLUMN: His entire life he’s been different. Now he’s worried that he’s just too much of a freak and a weirdo to have friends, never mind love. What can he do? ASK DR. NERDLOVE: I’m Afraid I’m A Weird, Freak Red Flag That Nobody Could Love!

From The Archives: The Rites of Spring (Break)

From The Archives: What Do I Do When Nobody Is Romantically Right For Me?

BioWare was responsible for so many of my favorite games and gaming moments. The number of games that actually affected emotionally - not just fun or engagement but emotional reactions to the story - are low and BioWare was responsible for most of them. Losing the studio like this is a tragedy.