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Truthfully I think very few people are gonna care much if I die in 6 months, theres been a lot of patterns with many being distant when i cry for help, and I think this will only continue to be how it goes pretty consistently till the end.
I am considering asking my care team when I will qualify for assisted death. I know many think its unethical, but i also dont know how much I will be able take it when the suffering really starts and the prolonging of life stops being worth it. Nobody likes to hear this but I'm just being real.
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Part of why I hate on transmedicalism is bc the ven diagram between ppl who are transmed and ppl who believe in AGP is basically a circle, and i know for a fact those people will call ME an AGP bc I like being a girl with a cock lol
the Transsexual Separatists arent a lot better but I will give them credit for at least advocating for HRT and surgeries to be freely accessible without gatekeeping, my issue with separatists is they still fucking suck at genuine transfeminist/patriarchy analysis lol
They both drink from the same koolaid, but one is genuinely my fucking enemy while the other is just annoying and likes to misgender my childhood as being "male" lol
Peak queer colonial-white supremacy (and barely disguised transmisogynoir) is calling a Black nonbinary CAMAB person a man for not performing nonbinary queerness "correctly" for white queers
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I beg you to save the little girl's life, please donate even just $5, I beg you.
π Her father passed away, and she was born with a cleft lip, preventing her from breastfeeding normally.
Baby Amal urgently needs reconstructive surgery to restore her smile and her life.
Your donation or sharing of this post could save her life and ease her grieving π
spot.fund/HopeForAmal
transmisogyny doesnt wait for you to take HRT, it is so structurally ingrained in patriarchal culture, that transmisogyny finds you before you even find yourself, bc coercive patriarchal sexgender has to punish the female deviation at every opportunity.
the "female" is already treated as a deviation from the "male", for trans females this is a double-deviation bc of the rejection of coercive patriarchal sexgender roles, resulting in harsh punishment. to be a trans woman at all is to be transmisogynized, just like to be a woman is to be misogynized.
HRT helped me but I was a woman before HRT, and that is a very controversial thing to say in trans politics apparently, bc we are supposed to treat 'women' as a medical condition, instead of an aspect of the political social relations within patriarchal sexgender, in which women are misogynized.
HRT helped me but I was a woman before HRT, and that is a very controversial thing to say in trans politics apparently, bc we are supposed to treat 'women' as a medical condition, instead of an aspect of the political social relations within patriarchal sexgender, in which women are misogynized.
the "female" is already treated as a deviation from the "male", for trans females this is a double-deviation bc of the rejection of coercive patriarchal sexgender roles, resulting in harsh punishment. to be a trans woman at all is to be transmisogynized, just like to be a woman is to be misogynized.
transmisogyny doesnt wait for you to take HRT, it is so structurally ingrained in patriarchal culture, that transmisogyny finds you before you even find yourself, bc coercive patriarchal sexgender has to punish the female deviation at every opportunity.
the way ppl talk about girl dick youd think all you gotta do is say you got it and you'll magically have a line out the door of people desperate to suck your girl dick, but I find it shockingly hard to find people who like girl dick.
PSA for cis folks: if a democrat goes on camera and answers a question about trans rights without making an explicit statement supporting trans rights, they're anti-trans
I need such direct communication about it or else I literally wont believe you're attracted to me. hints are not enough, I need to be told straight up that you're down or I simply wont believe it
Transmisogynist Patriarchy enforces an M on us at birth, We reject this, then we are punished by denying us employment/housing/various other basic needs, we become sex workers to survive, then are punished again for being "predators" & thrown into mens prisons/rape camps to be sex trafficked by men.
The notion of Nonbinary people who were coercively enforced M at birth as being "essentially male" is a really really useful tool for transmisogynists, and reflects an individual's own patriarchal bias towards seeing manhood as some kind of default human experience.
it very conveniently shuts down the possibility that a NB person like that might be transfem (or on the path towards figuring that out) and just so happens to mirror the state/doctors original coercion at birth. It insists on caging them into masculinity without their consent.
Rape culture and rapists cannot be rooted out of society without a complete negation of colonial-patriarchy as a coercive system of sexgender. Coercion and abuse is inherent to it.
Its not enough to just say coercion is bad and to simply target individuals who engage in it, if there is no effort to root out the material structures that produce coercion, the pattern will continue repeatedly on a very wide scale.
This is slightly in response to men who are performative about how badly they supposedly wanna "kill rapists" bc its low hanging fruit that serves their egos, deflects from their own self reflection, & doesnt address colonial-patriarchal-sexgender root structures that cause coercion & rape culture.
People are like "be careful of that trans woman, she was socialised male so she's dangerous" and then you look at her and see the most timid creature in the world who has never heard "I love you" from someone who didn't hurt her