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For a big group trip an Airbnb makes sense but otherwise I’ve never understood the appeal vs. a classic hotel, particularly when the costs are even remotely close

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I can cook a meal and have a full size refrigerator and a working freezer and an actual table to eat at. Kids each get their own room. I am awake later than the rest of my family so I'm not stuck on my phone in the dark when everyone else goes to sleep.

I would much rather stay at a hotel that offers apartment/condo style rooms versus an airbnb, but they mostly don't exist.

Yeah there's extended stay America too. But usually not where I'm traveling to, and when there is one it's always been completely booked.

I love a good hotel room specifically for its illusion that it’s No One’s Space; liminal, impersonal, it has been created just for me and will disintegrate the moment I leave. It lets me believe everything is brand new, the sheets were woven just for me, no one has ever jizzed on the curtains, etc

Kitchen is usually a factor. When we travel with our aging PILs, it’s needing enough space. My FIL doesn’t go out much, so a home environment is more comfortable for him than a sterile hotel room.

Location is a biggie for me. You often get a better feel for the city you’re traveling to in residential neighborhoods than hotel areas. Then there are some unique Airbnbs out there. Castle? Tower? Treehouse? I haven’t stayed in any of these, but it’s another reason people look at Airbnb.

I have an old school style “I live on the property” airbnb (just a spare bedroom with it’s own entrance I walled off) and it’s 1) cheaper than nearby hotels and 2) much nicer, more private and has free snacks and drinks. These new rules only impact shitty hosts who hurt my product. Fuck em.

Traveling with kids it’s nice to have more than 2 beds and a place to do laundry/cook food but they are expensive!

For my gf and I, we prefer to have a laundry machine when we hit multiple places in one trip abroad so we can pack lighter. Also helps to be able to reheat leftovers (most hotels scrapped microwaves, especially similarly-priced boutique hotels in Europe) and cook if we feel lazy to go out

My Airbnb stays fall into two groups: Areas where you can't easily get a hotel: areas near national parks out west, more secluded areas overseas (Isle of Skye, Orkney, SW Ireland, etc.) Metro areas where you can get a suburban apartment: Paris, Verona, Ottawa, Toronto, etc.

A lot of it is finding the right host - I want people who live local, either the resident who stays there or someone who lives around the corner and checks on the place frequently. Can't be a management company or something like that, then it's basically investment capital.

A comment I regularly think about in the hotel vs airbnb decision is, paraphrased, "if there's a problem with a hotel room, they can switch your room, or otherwise have the supplies to fix the problem right then. Good luck with that in an airbnb."

Full kitchen. That's literally it for me. If a hotel came stocked with a full kitchen with pots, pans, etc, I'd go there in an instant. I greatly prefer hotels for shorter trips but if I'm staying a week I just don't want to eat out all the time.

I've seen hotels with kitchenettes before but I'm not sure if they've been stocked with cookware. I'd definitely prefer a hotel one way or another.

world-changing to have a second bedroom when you have kids whose bedtime is 7pm. but diminishing returns when you have to strip the bed, do the dishes, and they still hit you with a $200 cleaning charge

This is legit and we’re big fans of the various “Inn & Suites” chain hotels for this purpose (but only one young kid so we don’t need a full second bedroom yet), sometimes even adjoining hotel rooms are cheaper than a decent Airbnb lately. But not having to do the chores anymore is big.

Or when you have a large family group that all need separate rooms. I took my mother, my adult kid, and my kid’s partner to Europe a couple of years ago. I paid the lodging costs for everyone. That would have been three hotel rooms, which is $$$$$ expensive unless you stay in a budget property.

Plus you have shared living space to hang out in. A dining table, a couch, etc. I usually go for AirBnBs in neighborhoods outside the tourist center (but close to transit), which are generally quieter and have restaurants that locals go to, not just tourists.

Laundry is another motivator on a longer trip, especially if you have small kids in tow. Hotel laundry prices are $$$$$, and having a washing machine in the apartment means you don’t have to spend several hours at a laundromat—you just do it late at night or during other down time.

I mean is it really cheaper than an extended stay hotel that has the kitchen in the room? Honest question as I’ve never done the Airbnb thing for the very reason of not wanting to deal with hosts

Oh the kitchen is what seals the deal for me. You mean I can make a quick breakfast/coffee and save ~$20 every morning on my trip? Yeah I'll take that. Hotels with small kitchens are also clutch

I'm okay w/starting the dishwasher on the way out, but if they ask for "all dishes washed, dried, and put away", that's an absolute dealbreaker for me. Like, you want me to spend 8am to 11am on checkout morning hanging out waiting for the dishwasher to finish? NO.

Yeah, that's insane. In my opinion, AirBNB should explicitly ban this "empty the dishwasher" requirement.

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I'm okay w/starting the dishwasher on the way out, but if they ask for "all dishes washed, dried, and put away", that's an absolute dealbreaker for me. Like, you want me to spend 8am to 11am on checkout morning hanging out waiting for the dishwasher to finish? NO.

once you add the requirement for a second bedroom, hotels become 40000000x the price as the only way they'd deign to accommodate that is to make them Presidential Suites with a grand piano in the bathroom

Wife and I rented a small VRBO condo on the beach and returned there for several years. We treated it well, informed owner of a few minor issues and offered to take care of a few small ones. After the second visit, the owner had us book with them directly to cut out corp fees.

Motels are usually cheaper, I always thought AirBnB was supposed to be the Uber equivalent of hotels but they're almost always as if not more expensive. I wish they had more budget options, I really don't mind just staying in some stranger's guest room as long as they're trustworthy.

I do airbnb for solo stuff if it's markedly cheaper. I Couldn't find any bulk rate hotels for a week long trip but i was able to talk to a host and stay at this shitty studio for like 80 bucks a day. More pizza money

Hotels are fine, but when you get a neighbor that parties all night, or has screaming kids up at all hours and the hallway is just doors slamming & wedding reception shenanigans until the wee hours…it sucks. Fuck AB&B, though

I could see it for something like Mardi Gras— you actually wanna be in the neighborhood and situated. But that said I’ve still never stayed at one and probably won’t

Work trip where you literally just need a single bed and a toilet, cost of a random AirBnB is like 4x lower for a night than an actual hotel

The price really varies depending on the area. Sometimes you can save a lot through Airbnb, sometimes it’s a terrible deal! I always check though, it’s like comparing airlines before booking a flight.

the other place Airbnbs justify themselves is the "resort" space, where you are staying at a nice place as the point of the trip. but that's fundamentally not how I vacation. I have a hotel so I can leave it to go do cool stuff, not because hotels are nice.