I'll add: Annie is right that your concerns and complaints about less-than-ideal Democrat candidates (anti-trans, anti-Palestine, etc). are totally valid. That said, those things are better addressed at the primary election, not the general election. (This is why we need ranked choice voting)
Vote, get the least-worst candidate into office, and then make your voice as a constituent heard. Annoy the heck out of them until they realize they’ll get fired in 2-6 years if they don’t shape up.