Narry ๐Ÿ”œ FurPoc, MFF

Narry ๐Ÿ”œ FurPoc, MFF

@narry.online

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a little over a year and a half ago, some very terrible things happened to me if it hasn't been obvious from posts appearing and disappearing, I've been hyper-depressed there's a part of me that wants to blow it all up. there's a part of me that questions that that would really accomplish

you hear it all the time "oh I didn't know, I wish they'd reached out sooner.." you hear this because it's uncomfortable to choose to get involved when you COULD do something but don't like the risks that come with acting on empathy

sometimes people decide to suck but you keep holding on for some reason i think it's the point I let go get back out be social again meet better people make better friends so, YOU cool person, what have you been up to?

Narry ๐Ÿ”œ FurPoc, MFF reposted

Replying to @narry.online

and if you think someone who is not around just "doesn't want to be bothered" or "must have a good reason" you're currently expressing bystander syndrome. now that you're aware of this? What ARE you going to do about it? It's a lot less comfortable when you're forced to choose, isn't it?

Narry ๐Ÿ”œ FurPoc, MFF reposted

that itch in your brain isn't wrong. social capital is a topic people don't like to discuss because it feels ugly and transactional. you will not convince someone to disrupt the status quo because it's the "right" thing to do if they parse net negative value You ARE less important The end.

it sucks when you know what'll happen someone convinces you to try anyways then it plays out exactly how you expected everyone ends up sad don't worry, it'll be different next time!!! Right? just admit it. you know it won't it's more comfortable once you stop lying to yourself freedom heh

Narry ๐Ÿ”œ FurPoc, MFF reposted

it sucks when you know what'll happen someone convinces you to try anyways then it plays out exactly how you expected everyone ends up sad don't worry, it'll be different next time!!! Right? just admit it. you know it won't it's more comfortable once you stop lying to yourself freedom heh