Mistress Jadis Ives

Sydney October 10th thru 16th.

Unless it's within a negotiated and time-limited role-play scenario, the need to "dominate" someone into baseline courtesy, common decency, consideration or transparency is a massive red flag.⛳️

For some, everything you've just described applies... Ultimately, those who submit have a desire they need to satisfy whether it's for the length of a session or through a long-term dynamic. Submission isn't a competition; someone's experience isn't invalid because someone else goes further.

The experience of submission is different for everyone: for some, it's a life-changing necessity; for some, it's fun, sexy and relaxing; for some, it's a needed utility to clear out mental cobwebs; for some, it's a vacation from the everyday self. Your experience is YOUR experience, and valid.

We have a MUCH wider range of activities and intensities over here in kink-land compared to the vanillas, which is why learning to communicate clearly and explicitly is a must.

Trust is a two-way street in D/s. One of the ways that you can begin to establish trust with a new Domme is by approaching correctly. A correct approach shows that you have done enough research to understand her offering and requirements.

Pain play isn't always about punishment... some of us are sadists..😉🌊

Mindful connection with your play partner is what lets you go further safely. When a sub can feel your awareness and intention they feel safe to let go.

The good news is that I might be able to get another Sydney visit in before harvest... the bad news is it looks like I'm going to be flooded in for a bit before that is able to happen. Fingers crossed!

Diving into some new kink reading and WOW the difference an author with real depth of experience makes.

🖤 = chunky platforms 🗡️ = stiletto knee highs ✨ = shiny thigh highs Which pair are your favourite?

A big day of fun ahead with @harper-bizarre.bsky.social including a special birthday celebration for one of my good boys. 🍾 🎂

Shine on ✨

I can tell when its a new SW account earnestly trying to engage to grow on here, and when you're commenting under my posts to try and get noticed by buyers. I just block the second type. Be less fucking pathetic. And dump the agency.

Fetishists expect "services," submissives expect to SERVE. (And if youre a fetishist, for the love of all that's unholy, please don't change your lingo. You're not the actor you think you are. Just own who you really are.)

Potentially unpopular opinion, given the current market, but when a potential client approaches me talking about My "services", it tells me something about their mindset.

"I won't keep filling your inbox"...and yet here you are trashfire, male run OF Agency, here you are.🙄

Good Morning Sydney 🌞

Champagne and shiny boots. 🥂 🍾

The way you present a request to a Domme is going to have a huge impact on the outcome of that request. Think carefully on how you can present your requests humbly and with respect.

@harper-bizarre.bsky.social

FarmDomme problems today: *naughty roos raiding my vege garden *kept awake by a horny male Koala grunting in the night. *3m pregnant python in my feed shed.

When my locked lil tradies take their chastity check pics in their utes and their work clothes.🔥🔒

It's happening! @harper-bizarre.bsky.social 's visit is coming up soon!

My memory is good, but only SO good.

Boots & Leather🖤

24/7 D/s relationships DO exist in real life… just not as most people would visualise them in their fantasies. A dynamic doesn’t need to be constantly demonstrated explicitly to be implicit to the relationship.

I feel the same way. If they take the time to properly prepare themselves and come to me with the right mindset, then I'll guide them. But they can't turn up like a rabbit in headlights and expect us to work with them blind.

I really love nerding out over bondage, so I love when my subs send me inspo pics like this or bring them in to show me. They're the start of the conversation tho. I enjoy the challenge of building in modifications to adapt them to the needs of different bodies.

Drop to your knees🙇

Ominous reminder that she's coming back! We'll be available together October 15th & 16th.

For some reason, this image brought an acrostic to mind: Justice Administered via Deft Intense Strapping Impassioned Voluptuous Erotic Sadist

POV: You're on your knees for me.

I've got to say, it's a little eye opening to see just how succeptible this community still is to rage bait, especially when the rage bait in question was so obviously written by a LLM.

Home and catching up with the farm and the horses. My next Sydney visit is going to be a long one, aaaand I may have a very nice surprise for you all.

Every sub feels both excited and unsure before their first session, but as an adult, managing those feelings is the subs responsibility. I've provided plenty of information and resources for new players, but I refuse to coax or hand hold.

Bts BB!

Shoot day 📸📸

Oh Yes! Intensity can certainly be the outcome with Mistress Jadis. But sessions will always be expertly tuned to what the situation and Her sub needs. And Her whims of course. It’s not just empty words when Her communications say: “Bespoke BDSM experiences for Kink Connoisseurs”.

Centered intensity. 🖤

Get locked🔒

Snacks, drinks and swims with @harper-bizarre.bsky.social this afternoon. 🖤🖤

Sunday is for worship. 🙇

Next week 🛫Melbourne🛬then🛫Sydney🛬.