Dr. Amy, PsyD 🎃

Dr. Amy, PsyD 🎃

@dramypsyd.rmh-therapy.com

Psychologist and a bunch of other things. ADHD, autism, trauma. #ActuallyADHD, #ActuallyAutistic. Also cats. I like to think I'm funny. Beautiful middle-aged freak. She/her Best friend of @cmiriam.bsky.social www.resiliencymentalhealth.com

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So Gurufare (the travel agency we booked our flights through who didn't properly update our itinerary after a delay, leaving us stranded in Dallas) just offered me a $200 voucher that can only be used to book with their company in return for updating my one-star reviews about them.

I told them that doesn't even cover the hotel room their mistake cost us, and what good is a voucher for them when I'm definitely not booking through them again? Also the fifth or sixth time they repeated that it's the airline's fault and they won't help me, I told them to stop emailing me.

So anyway, if you're looking to get stranded because of a travel agency's error and not be able to reach anyone to help you, and you want to spend over a week trying to find a resolution only to have them offer a fraction of what their mistake cost, book with Gurufare!

I hope nobody needs to hear this but as Saturday is Halloween, here’s your reminder that if you’re only kind to a child who does not speak when they carry a blue bucket, you are not in fact a kind person. You are not entitled to a stranger’s medical information. Just give them the candy.

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Oh also if your child wants to carry a blue bucket, I’m all for that! I just see adults being like “I won’t give them candy if they don’t speak” and I’m like stop being a buzzkill, it’s supposed to be fun

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I host an inclusive Halloween party every year so my little shawties can enjoy the holiday the best way for them

Friends, you get to do Halloween however works best for you and your crew. (And that includes autistic adults who still enjoy the holiday, or avoiding Halloween entirely.) But if you're going to participate, we have experience and advice! At TPGA: thinkingautismguide.com/2010/10/havi...

I hope nobody needs to hear this but as Saturday is Halloween, here’s your reminder that if you’re only kind to a child who does not speak when they carry a blue bucket, you are not in fact a kind person. You are not entitled to a stranger’s medical information. Just give them the candy.

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If you don’t like lollipops I’ve got movie theater Sour Patch Kids boxes because I read that in a survey, Gen Alpha voted it their favorite candy. Also king size Reese’s for anyone who likes chocolate. And infinity cubes too!

The Reese’s and lollipops are gluten free, and the Sour Patch Kids and lollipops are nut free. Everyone gets a fidget toy, and if you can’t have any of the candy you can take two toys. And of course milk bones for the dogs

I hope nobody needs to hear this but as Saturday is Halloween, here’s your reminder that if you’re only kind to a child who does not speak when they carry a blue bucket, you are not in fact a kind person. You are not entitled to a stranger’s medical information. Just give them the candy.

As a psychologist it’s important I maintain my Hippo Training

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Timothy the Hippo (Hippopotamus amphibius) at the San Antonio Zoo demonstrates why he's not in the petting area using a Fall pumpkin. 🦛🎃 The bite force of a hippo is ~2000 psi, producing a force of 8100 Newtons. So why does a GRASS-EATER have jaws stronger than a polar bear, jaguar or lion's?

Vetting a publication that reached out to me to collaborate. They make resources to help parents. Reviews are good overall but some parents complain that they need to repeat activities with their kids several times. I...don't think that's a ding on the publisher, that's just how learning works.

I definitely empathize with the frustration and the desire for something to work very quickly. It's just not realistic. And the parents who left those reviews, I hope you got whatever support you needed and that things are going better now. 💜

What's that you say? A UK study aimed at proving that ADHD and autism are over-diagnosed actually found that we are still under-diagnosing both, and lack access to assessments remains a huge barrier to support? What a shocking and unexpected conclusion! www.politicsuk.com/p/fonagy-rev...

politicsuk.comFonagy Review Rejects Blanket Overdiagnosis Claim and Calls for Earlier Mental Health SupportFonagy Review finds a substantial rise in mental distress among young people, while the population-level prevalence of ADHD and autism appears broadly stable.

Etsy now requires all listings to have at least one unedited photo of the actual item being sold, bans bot listings, and prohibits AI-generated patterns. Might actually become useable again!

I do feel compelled to ask why were we not always required to share actual photographs of the product we are selling? Until now Etsy just thought it was cool to list a product with no actual pictures of the product?

Vera does this thing where if I’m taking in an angry tone she comes to check on me. It’s done wonders for my blood pressure but just now I was on the phone with the booking agency and they were like you took the flight so we are denying your refund request And I went I never requested a refund,

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My bank said if they didn’t properly transfer the AA flight, I have grounds to claw back the entire charge. That feels extreme to me, I don’t think I’m owed a free round trip, but if they’re not willing to work with me that may be the only other option

Vera does this thing where if I’m taking in an angry tone she comes to check on me. It’s done wonders for my blood pressure but just now I was on the phone with the booking agency and they were like you took the flight so we are denying your refund request And I went I never requested a refund,

I am saying you made an error that caused me to miss my connection. This is on you, and I deserve reimbursement for my expenses MEOW Yes Vera it’s ok I’m not mad But this is your mistake and you keep pushing me back on the airline

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I don't know if American Airlines is fully blameless here, their plane had a "mechanical issue" too, BUT so far they've been the only one to make any effort to accommodate us by buying us dinner when it was clear we weren't getting home Friday night. Like at least they're trying.

Today I learned that Elizabeth Holmes's sentence was reduced because a judge determined that she did not cause "substantial financial hardship" to the people she de-frauded. So...it's not illegal to steal from someone if they can afford to be stolen from. Do with that information what you will.

nbcnews.comElizabeth Holmes to be transferred to a halfway house next yearHolmes, 42, was sentenced to more than 11 years in prison for defrauding investors of hundreds of millions of dollars through Theranos, her failed blood-testing company.

Qantas says Gurufare did the original booking so it's their problem. Gurufare says Qantas is responsible because they had the delay. I don't care whose fault it is, somebody send me a check

For full transparency, I am currently Karen-ing at Gurufare because their resolution is to tell me they're sorry I feel this way but there's nothing they can do to help me. bsky.app/profile/dram...

Dr. Amy, PsyD 🎃@dramypsyd.rmh-therapy.com

Just in case a stranger filmed me in my state of overwhelm, please know that I wasn’t Karen-ing, I continuously apologized throughout the interaction, and I told the agent’s supervisor that she was amazing and helpful afterwards 💜

The hotel we stayed at in Dallas asked me for feedback so I gave a glowing review. They asked if I remember the name of the staff that helped me but I didn’t write it down. I was like “Ask everyone working at 9pm on Friday if they gave a cookie to a crying lady with purple hair, that’s the one”

Also in my unable to fall asleep but brain fogged state yesterday I made a to do list and if anyone knows what I meant by “Rub J” that would be really helpful because apparently I need to do that today