Aiko Chimera - Chicago

Every time I need to say no to a man after I’ve already set boundaries a faerie dies.

Book the woman, because the life you’ve built deserves thoughtful company 🥰

Sp00ky season’s gonna be 🔥🔥🔥 @greatergoodsmarket_ @thegarage.rhouse @frederickprfm @steinhardt_brewing_co @charmcitykittyclub @mdffparkway

Thank you so much to the wonderful client who sent me this bountiful gift card from my Marigold wishlist!! 💖 Waking up to a gift is now one of my favorite ways of starting the day 🥰

Growing older teaches you that success is not only about what you achieve but also about the person you become while achieving it, the kindness you share, and the peace you carry within yourself.”

hey so it actually only has to make sense to me for me to do it and i don't feel like explaining it to anyone else.

Here’s something nobody warned me about when I started SW and tbh I didn’t think would bother me as much as it does: Genuine stalkers, relentless anonymous lurkers, and the way you never know which it is. This is an account that I happened to notice followed me today but this is SO common #oursky

The most impactful lesson I’ve learned from working in this industry is the practice of choosing my body & inner peace, over & over & over again. Work/money comes & goes. My body is my home, my safe haven. I will never abandon myself again, not for any amount of $ or for anyone else’s comfort. 💗

Some dates call for martinis. Others call for a proper tea service

people in their 40s, 50s + are so fucking fine my god

My favorite clients respect my time & energy, communicate well, and though it’s never expected, even send little gifts between our appts to let me know they’re thinking of me. 🥰 I truly appreciate you 💞

Btw, this event was almost completely covered by clients! Way to show that you value both our goodies and our growth. Everyone who contributed will be getting something special from me shortly 🥰 Grazie

I think anticipation is underrated. Having someone you're genuinely excited to see can make the whole week a little sweeter. #datechicago #oursky

Please share!! (Posted earlier w the wrong address.) 🥲 Opening reception for We Are Here - a SW art exhibition Come see art made by your favorite babes 💕 With a live performance of Mattress Actress with @MistressOdette Margeaux Marks and myself. Nov 6, 6-9pm, 465 s. Van Ness

Some of the worst clients are the ones who book massage, but push for a GFE dynamic. Or push for kink, which I don’t even offer. No matter how clear I make the parameters of my services, some men will always act like they’re above respecting the rules that keep me safe, just so they can bust a nut.

Seeing people only as members of groups is inherently reductionist and dehumanizing, a collectivist and ideological abstraction of all that’s original and creative in the human being. Real, personal identity springs from the capacity to resist these influences and counter them with free acts of

Not everyone can drop $1600 on a hot woman's rent for her birthday. But most anyone could support the international writing group for sex workers she runs... Patreon.com/SWerWrites

There’s no one else like you — how cool is that??✨ 📸 @inamorataphoto.bsky.social

Your sensuality doesn't disappear just because life gets busy. Sometimes it just gets buried underneath work, stress, routines, responsibilities, and being needed by everyone else. A little intentional time devoted entirely to pleasure can feel like opening a window ❤️‍🔥

Incredibly P.O. on a friend's behalf. Never reenact 🌽 w/o prior explicit concern. It's *unreal* how many men think that violent actions like choking are part of vanilla sex. Or they think it's fine to surprise SWers w it. Spoiler alert: it's not!

OMG I just woke up to a slew of Marigold gifts from a Bsky/blog admirer!! 😍 Including a generous gift card for my cat (aka my baby angel) and some very thoughtful notes that warmed my heart 🥹💗 I don’t know your Bsky handle so I sent you a proper thank you message via Marigold - I hope you got it! 🩵

CLIENTS: Reaching out to book & then ghosting is chicken shit behavior. I have other obligations & often need to consider moving things to accommodate appts. Or I’ve spent time planning logistics for our date. Have the courtesy to let me know you’ve changed plans. Send a gift. Be better. Be kind ♥️

Sometimes potential clients don't understand certain rules we have because they don't make sense in *their* logic. What you have to consider is that our rules almost always are safety related in some way, and explaining how they work would actually compromise the safety. So just follow. the. rules.

dry humping is a lost art and we are the preservation society

“There’s no ‘supposed to be’ in bodies. The question is not size, shape or age. Does this body feel, does it have connection to pleasure, to heart, to soul, to the wild? Can it in its own way move, dance, jiggle, sway? Nothing else matters.” 💖 —Clarissa Pinkola Estes 📸 @inamorataphoto.bsky.social

Have the strength to walk away from things that aren't for you and your life will become full of the things that are.

Why I’m selective with clients: Boundary crossing, micro-aggressions, condescension, objectification, and projection of unhealed emotional wounds all leave my body & energy feeling violated long after the session ends, for hours or even days. 🫩 Respectful clients leave me feeling good. 💞

Omg one of my all time favorite clients just gifted me 3 items from my Marigold wishlist!! Thank you so much — you’re the best 💜💜💜

The Gifted Child ™️ to Sex Worker pool is a fascinating phenomenon to observe 🧠

Come find me offline, it's so much better here. There's sunshine and grass. There are boobs you can actually touch. It's wonderful.

After months of working, the app I built is officially out on the Google play store and in web app version! 💕 This is an app helps SWs prepare their photos with ease from their phone. Redact.ID ✨ Blurs faces ✨ Removes tattoos ✨ Strips photo metadata ✨ Batch processes images redactid.app

Thank you again to the Bsky sweetheart who bought me this bundle off my Marigold wishlist! 🩵 The cat hair clip is even cuter in person, the shirt is high quality cotton & screenprinting, and it arrived wrapped in their adorable custom branded cat tissue paper. I love supporting small businesses 🩷

Trying something diff: I’ll trade ONLY my relational coaching & emotional/social support services in exchange for drum lessons! 🥁 I’m not a musician, nor am I trying to be. I’ve just always wanted to learn how to drum for fun. If interested, fill out my booking form❣️ 📸 @inamorataphoto.bsky.social

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I’m seeing some of the same reply guys from X on here now, the ones who emailed me expressing admiration & plans of booking “one day,” basically wanting free companionship & emotional labor. Don’t be like this. Actually book or if you’re going to email a provider for attention, send a gift. 💝

Implementing a GFE application (diff from my booking form) has been one of the best things for my business! My new clients have been amazing!! And though it’s not required of them, a few non-GFE clients have even filled it out to increase their chances of passing screening. I’m truly impressed.✨

Sex is way better when there’s money involved

Please join me in wishing my baby girl a happy fourth birthday! The years truly do fly by when you're having fun - can't believe I'm the mother of a 'teen' now 🐶 she is accepting gifts via mommy's wishlist ✨

Film to fund/support if folks are inclined: seedandspark.com/fund/seeing-...

More and more, I’m loving the no makeup look. For me, the beauty of aging has been getting more comfortable in my own skin, body, soul 😌☀️