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The way people will show you what they actually think about trans people and how much they actually value your presence in their life when you start hormones or get surgery and need support/community will always stick with me lol. I lost like 4 friends leading up to bottom surgery

Vim🧛

@vimlena.com

As in, who is actually willing to support you/be understanding and not dismiss you as demanding or crazy if you have some complex feelings or new considerations. Who will see past their own hangups around transsexuals and treat you with respect/value your autonomy. It forces everything to come out.

12/10/26, 10:56 pm0 reposts7 likes

Vim🧛

@vimlena.com

Another thing that, in my experience, will get people to reveal what they actually think: seeing how people react to finding out that I have been out for about ~18 years despite being 29 years old. Watch them do the math lol. If they wanna see “before” pictures or get into trans kid discourse, well,