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Yep, I travel a lot internationally and have never encountered someone who was unpleasant to me just because I’m American. I think many Americans who don’t travel abroad much seem to *hugely* overestimate the odds of non-Americans being rude to them simply for being Americans.

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I've also found it rare to meet an America hater across the 6ish continents I've worked across. Most people are excited that you came to visit and are being polite and respectful (bonus points if you try to speak a couple local language greetings). They'll also generally br very curious about you!

Someone will doubtless get mad at me for this (ironically) but I suspect that those Americans who claim they’re constantly treated poorly abroad merely for being American are actually just being treated poorly because they have Rancid Vibes

I think a lot of Americans expect a level of cheerful subservience from retail and food service staff that doesn’t exist elsewhere and they interpret that difference as being targeted for being American. So I agree, those people have bad vibes.

One thing here is travel advice like “speak some French in France” isn’t really useful in touristy places now? It’s just an added burden? I always order in French, order weird things on the menu, the waitstaff turns and breaks from French to say in English “you know what that is, right?”

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