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I did indeed survive, but that alone isn't a guarantee of marriage yet. I'm old enough to realize a potential marriage must enhance my life (with give and take) more than it drags it down.

Well, you know, better safe than sorry. Just need to double check how mutual a relationship truly is before living together indefinitely. Divorce isn't something I want to ever deal with.

I hope you can avoid living with pain and trauma, but this helps me: “There is only one thing that I dread: not to be worthy of my sufferings.”- Fyodor Dostoevsky