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Ghostly Bree
@mostlybree.kitrocha.com

This is something we get accused of surprisingly often and all I can say is: yes. Good. I am here to destroy the hopes and dreams of husbands who don't think they have to add value to their wife's life.

Robin Marty @robinmarty.com

"For married women, it gives unrealistic expectations of sex, often leading to disappointment in our marriages...For unmarried women, these books will do nothing but give you unrealistic expectations for when you do get married."

Adipose Regina
@adipose-regina.bsky.social

The worst thing about this is that being bad in bed, over a ling enough timeline, is a choice. Thry could literally just ask and listen and care, and the sex would get good with practice.

A. Cosmographer
@acosmographer.bsky.social

This!? They don't even need to fond different partners. They could try working it out together! Lots of people do! it's not only "my husband is bad in bed" but also "i will settle for this badness and so will you"

Ghostly Bree
@mostlybree.kitrocha.com

it's also not the most important thing to everyone! there are so many ways to add value... but the fact that they call it "unrealistic expectations" and "disappointment" makes it pretty clear it's something they wish they had and are trying to convince themselves they do not

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Adipose Regina
@adipose-regina.bsky.social

I got married real young, and my spouse's "I will make sure you're not stressing about anything so you can just relax and have a good time" energy made up for a hell of a lot of bedroom inexperience. He still does all the cooking & making sure kid is cared for on "business days".