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1/5 This is something I said on a Discord server, but that I wanna put somewhere more visible. We've been subjected to barrages of bad news after bad news after bad news, and this isnt even something recent. We've been on a constant barrage of horrible news with barely anything positive since 2020.

2/5 6 years. 6 whole fucking years of almost only bad news with no respite. This is why at some point I stopped watching news, reading news, avoiding news unless something was so big that it came to me naturally. Otherwise I think my mental health would be irreparably destroyed by now.

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3/5 And in the same vein, we've been in survival mode, often "fight or flight mode" for as long or even longer. This isnt sustainable but it looks like we'll have to brace to continue with this for a long more time. This is part of why I've been trying to avoid engaging with some topics...

I get it. Been alternating between seething anger/exhausted depression. I'm old. on BP meds. I take my BP at home every morning. Doc recently upped the dosage & that worked for a bit. Then Trump bombed Caracas & it spiked. It spiked again yesterday after the woman was murdered by ICE thugs.

4/5 ... and why I've been putting an active focus on things that I like. Webcomics? Space? Music? Things that make me happy and bring me life. What i mean with all this is, we're all exhausted and i will not fault anyone for just refusing to engage with bad news anymore.

I had to move to a whole other state once based on the continuous cortisol dump that was causing me to grind my teeth every morning the minute I woke up. Americans will have PTSD from this era, at the very least. Escaping to cat videos and happy hobbies between protest marches is necessary.

5/5 I've been told that by refusing to engage I'm giving that space to the bad actors to take it over, and I can see the point, but come on. We all have a threshold on what we're able to endure, and if you're reaching your limit, its okay to take a step aside and get out of what's bringing you down.

I alternate following the news (not all of it is bad - there are occasional points of light and fight) with looking at pictures of cats, dogs, rabbits, capybyras, and other soothing creatures.

My personal thoughts: both of those outlooks are true. It's important to collectively continue to do our best to fight back against bad actors taking over conversations and spaces. However, that intrinsically means running to fight another day. You won't be very good at the former without breaks.

That may work for you, and I'm not faulting you for it. But I can say that for ME that only makes it worse. The only antidote for me is to do all I can to oppose this fascist regime. Every chance I get, I protest, sometimes traveling an hour or more. For my mental health.

More and more I'm wondering if social media isn't a net detriment to society. I don't want to cede the forum but man has life gotten worse since everyone got online. I miss when the internet was only us weirdos.

All true. And I’d argue we’ve been in this trauma mode since the escalator in 2015. His first term was no picnic after all. A decade of this nonsense, and it’s worse than I would have guessed. If we stick together we’ll stay strong. We have to remember we actually have the power to change things.

1/3 I totally get it, you got burned out from all the horrendous news. I often find myself in the same place. I saw a YouTube which was made prior to yesterday's cold blooded ICE murder in MN. Toward the end Heather Cox Richardson points out several positive facts from the Biden admin which may be

You’re on to something, there. Seriously, it’s cold comfort to know that there are so many others out there that are feeling the same rotten despair, and are taking solace in some of the same things!

Oh hell yes you have to have escaped to somewhere or something positive the past 5 years or you would be insane by now. What gets me is the constant lying and word manipulation by mostly all of the news media. It's insulting and infuriating. I can't watch.

People who never give themselves space become bitter. Bitter people develop negative charisma. Negative charisma people undermine the causes they try to support. Embittering dissidents with bad news is a strategy. The stuff that makes you happy is necessary to maintaining positive charisma.

It’s what I had to do. Sometimes you drown so much in the noise and static that you don’t really realize how loud things were until it gets quiet. You spend a couple day’s disconnected you realize that the only thing making your life hell is the stuff that certain people feed you.