me: <mark message unread on discord to come back to later>
2 seconds passes
me: hmm, I wonder what has been posted in this channel that's marked as unread
I do the same, and it has unfortunately caused me to have to *completely* shut down some apps/channels until I have a fully available time to catch up. ADHD or whatever, but if you find any more adaptive ways to manage this I would love to know.