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Trying to normalize the disappointment of cruising a hot profile on Recon - getting a view back - and no return cruise… I know… cruises are folly and dumb… 😪

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This, and messages, and promises of meeting up and then ghosting. We've all experience all of this from all the different places, and likely even done it to others (sometimes unintentionally). Just a missed opportunity!

Even if the guy is hot, I generally only cruise back if 1) I find some commonalities on their profile, and/or 2) they are in my general area, or an area I travel to. And I don't cruise back if there is something on their profile that's a big turn off for me (ex., I don't enjoy fisiting)

I have mixed feelings when guys cruise me from thousands of miles away. I do appreciate the flattery, but at the same time, there's a very, very low probability I'll ever get to meet that person, so I'm not really sure how much I want to engage